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It doesn't relieve feelings of guilt, I mean if I've done something that I actually do feel guilty about (which isn't very often, but occasionaly happens)it doesn't take the guilt away. The guilt fades over time, but spanking doesn't get rid of it. The only thing that spanking relieves me of is my desire to be spanked.

I don't ever really have a desire to be spanked, per se, so there is no relief there, LOL. I don't do things that I would feel truly guilty about, the only thing that would inspire real guilt in me would be something I think is truly wrong for my own gain and I just don't do that.

What I generally feel guilty about that I do do, is something that I think injures a relationship. When I lie to my husband, I may believe the actual lie is no big deal and it usually isn't. But just the act of lying, I feel, hurts our relationship, even if he doesn't know about it. It changes the way I relate to him. I am now a person who hides things from him and I don't want to be that person. So the spanking relieves my guilt in these situations because it cleans the slate. It lets me know that we are back where we started and he has forgiven me for violating that trust. We start over and I don't have to worry about him thinking, "Well, she lied to me before how do I know she isn't lying 2022-01-27 (木) 01:13:20"

For me, I guess, the guilt is caused by thinking that I have hurt him and the spanking lets me know that he is not hurting over it and our relationship is not harmed by it.

I cry quite easily from emotional reasons, but that generally tends to make me feel worse rather than better.

This is me, too. I don't know why but crying from emotional stress makes more stress, while crying from physical pain is a stress reliever. I don't know what the difference is.

Otter

by Otter on 2005 Jun 6 - 20:51 | reply to this comment Crying I don't know why the physical pain of spanking doesn't make me cry. Since we started having a Taken In Hand relationship the severity of the spankings I get has increased massively, but it makes no difference, I still don't cry, a few times I have felt close to it, but it just passes. I make a lot more noise than I used to, I whimper and wail and occasionally plead for clemency, but I don't cry. The few occasions when my husband has been genuinely angry about something, and when I have felt that he really was taking his annoyance out on my bottom(as with the


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