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As far as morality, you'd have to hope that a master would at least feel constrained by the law of the land and would not make the slave commit murder or any other crime. I did know a woman whose master ordered her, for no good reason, to cut off communications with her children. I think (a) that's an abuse of power that she entrusted to him, and (b) if she obeyed that, she is plain stupid and a wuss.
Someone who wants to be in this relationship is going to have to search out a master whose views agree very closely with the slave's, or else serving that person will be a misery.
I do not consider Taken In Hand to be a Master/slave relatiohship. The distinction is clear. In M/s, if a slave says no, the slave is out the door. In a Taken In Hand relationship I get the feeling that if the wife says no, I don't want this anymore, the relationship will simply change to meet the new needs. I seriously doubt that a Taken In Hand husband would show his wife the door if she said she really wanted things to be equal instead.
"Pat"
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2005 May 8 - 14:22 | reply to this comment Pat's last point I seriously doubt that a Taken In Hand husband would show his wife the door if she said she really wanted things to be equal instead.
I don't think you are right about this, or not in all cases anyway – I can't imagine that if I were in a Taken In Hand relationship I would be able to live with a change to an equal relationship, so I should think that the same would be true for some Taken In Hand men too – but if you or anyone else would like to argue this point, feel free to submit an article on it to give it its own thread.
by Sarah Cavendish on 2005 May 8 - 15:21 | reply to this comment A law of M/s relationships? Pat wrote:
In M/s, if a slave says no, the slave is out the door.
Is that a rule the master has to obey to be deemed a master in the M/s community, or what?
